How to stay young at heart.....



Willow tree angel of the heart

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.......Proverbs 4:23

My best friend Elaine and I recently re-connected with some dear people who were some of the first that we met when we came to Arizona years ago. Ruby sold Mary Kay and I ran out of lipstick! We had an instant connection cemented by lots of laughter. I don't know why we lost touch, and it doesn't really matter. Life has a way of carrying people in different directions sometimes, but I always believe that God loves to orchestrate reunions too. What a blessing it was to find that none of us had changed much, and our hearts had not changed at all! It seemed to me like the last 8-9 years had dissolved and that we were all standing in the same spot we were when last we met.

Isn't it a blessing to have friends like that? Ron and Ruby will be the first to tell you that "old age ain't for sissies." They have had their share of health problems and surgeries, but they have retained the secret of youth. Laughter, their love for the Lord and each other, staying in the Word, (both are leading Bible studies), keeping up on current events, watching the Pastor's  four children and learning new things. Most importantly they have not forgotten how to laugh at themselves! They don't allow their own problems to consume them, but realize the importance of listening to others concerns and joys.

Their home is strewn with signs of life, children's toys, open Bibles on the table, books with markers in them, paintings and new photos on the walls and cookies in the jar. Even though they are in their seventies and probably have many aches and pains, they dress sharp and they stay positive. They know the Source of hope! Theirs is a home full of life, a house of hope. A place where you want to take off your shoes and stay awhile. They have figured out the secret of staying young at heart. We all know youth won't last, but our hearts can stay young forever. That is something we have control over!

Have you ever visited a home and a people that have given up? You can't wait to get out the door!

What a blessing it is to re-connect with old friends, and what a blessing to find that all the important things have not changed; for it is the Spirit of God that draws us together. No matter what our age, background, cultural differences, the Spirit of love binds our hearts and dissolves the differences that the world wants to put between us so many times. We have become a society that seeks to separate.....Sometimes we separate ourselves, and that is never good. There is so much we can all learn from each other at every age!

Thank you God for bringing us back together with our special friends at just the right time..........and thank you for the magic of laughter, which came just as easy as it ever did to us all, even after years apart, what a blessing!

So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Philippians 2:1,2

"You will not find a soul mate in the quiet of your room. You must go to a noisy place and look in the quiet corners." Robert Brault